[Prestige]

At least 2 of the players that I've personally received perms from (due to rolling a 1), have openly stated, "Damn I didn't want to perm you" - mostly because it was the first fight we had / first encounter.

that's the thing, dangerous means exactly that - dangerous. you're fighting very seriously with all of ur magic, and you can potentially injure a person despite not meaning to. the heat of the battle and all. if that isn't something you'd like to RP, then you should choose the restrained setting. simple